Debut: Welcome to the Adulthood Stage!

People enetering in their early adulthood is like walking in an isle filled with roses and candle lights, welcoming you to matured outlook in life. Well, for girls celebrating their 18th birthday, it might look that one. For boys celebrating their 21st birthday, there would be a little difference since the other prespective for them in turning 21 is learning life and being areal man above all.


But in preparation for this, teenage girls/ boys took alot of stress to start their young adulthood right. For these young ones to be emotionally, physically and of course, FINANCIALLY prepared, I brought some pointers on what to do, what you should also prepare for this once in a life time day.

Example of Debut theme

 Emotionally Preparedness


Mood swings, changes in giving prespectives even in a smallest happening and ofcourse, growing age. Mind sets like "I must be prepared in the upcoming changes" occur in people turning on their young adulthood stage.


For this, talking about sudden changes to a person two to five years older than you is the most suggestive thing to do. Comparing storiesis what most likely to happen since that older person you will be talking to already experienced your struggles. It was just like looking through old albums for them. It was also better to have a talk with your parents. They surely know how to handle it and also, so they may understand the sudden changes and you and help you out carrying it.


New look!




Of course, here comes the party people! Its about time to hide your backpacks, sneakers and big-boy caps and shop for a new look. You are 18 or 21. You don't wanna be bullied by the friend of yours of wearing that in a ball where you will be celebrating your debut, right? So keep those and be lady/ man! Psychologists also say that changing your fashion changes laso gives you a difference in your appeal and way of thinking. So don't stick on being a kid. Be a young adult or stay in your fairytale book i guess?



Money Talks


Expenses, ofcourse! 
Budgeting is no less that the answer to your problems. Ofcourse, you'll have the ball, the venue, and also personal expenses. But all in all, it would be nicer if you set the priorities. The number of guests, the venue, the food and the program. These are what you should prioritize. You don't want the guests to kill themselves out of boredom, eh? Expect the unexpected number of guests. Think big. Some will not come alone and bring friends. Maximize your ideas. But don't forget to always mind how fun would the ball also would be. Don't think of the pero sogn too much, look on the possible outputs.




The Ball




"Tadaaah!", the biggest moment of your life. Time to turn out from the pupa, little butterfly! You handle your life this timer. Oops, don't be pressured. You are free this time. Some says it's the starting age to know more about yourself, interact with connections, see the broader side of the world, be educated about sex, learn to manage your money, work, vote and be legal to do stuffs. Invite the closest friends, family, colleagues. Have an intimate party with them. You are the star this time. Always remember to talk with them, as usual as you can. Divide your time because each of your guests is a part of you so don't miss sharing toughts with them. They are good memories of your teenage life and soon to be ibn your adulthood so don't waste friends. Keep them, have fun with them in your special day!~


There you have it! Debut is one of the most special day each of us must experience. Wether grand or simple, its still you ebetering in the adulthood stage! In whatever you are planning, theme preparing and stuffs setting, it would be still important that you should gain someting. Be matured and live your life better.